Who Is Christina Milian’s Kids Father?

Christina Milian’s three children are from two marriages. The singer’s first child was a product of her first marriage to The Dream, while her other two children are a product of her relationship and subsequent marriage to Matt Pokora.

The Resort To Love actress Milian has been in a number of other high-profile relationships with a number of popular entertainers and actors such as Lil Wayne and Nick Cannon. However, the actress conceived and bore her three children from marriages to the two men she has said “I do” to. This article takes a more incisive look at the men who fathered her three kids and what her relationship with said men was like.

Christina Milian Kids were Fathered By Two Men

As previously stated, Christina Milian has three children; a daughter and two sons. She had her daughter during her first marriage to rapper The Dream, while her two sons were born shortly before and during her current marriage to French R&B singer Matt Pokora. Take a journey with us and find out all you need to know about Christina’s kids’ fathers.

The Dream is the Father of Christina Milian’s First Child

  • Date of Birth: September 20, 1977
  • Age: 46 years old
  • Occupation: Singer, Songwriter, Rapper, Producer
  • Wedding Date: September 4, 2009
  • Divorce Date: October 23, 2011

Christina Milian met her ex-husband in 2009, shortly after her 3-year relationship with Andre “Dre” Lyon had ended. Exactly how they met hasn’t been revealed to the media, but given the fact that they are both musicians, one would assume that they probably met while working on a music project together, even though there is no evidence to support this fact.

It didn’t take long for rumors to start floating around that they were romantically involved. These rumors began as early as February 2009, and the former couple invariably confirmed these rumors in March 2009. By June 2009, they were engaged and announced the engagement to the media.

Milian and Nash eloped to Las Vegas, Nevada, in September 2009, and on September 4, 2009, they exchanged marital vows at the Little White Chapel, Las Vegas, Nevada. It would appear that the ex-couple had decided to wed on the spur of the moment because a few months later, they held a proper ceremony in Rome, Italy, before returning to the United States to renew their vows in front of their friends and family.

On September 11, 2009, just a week after their wedding in Las Vegas, the former couple announced that they were expecting a child, and just a few months later, on February 26, 2010, Milian and The Dream, whose real name is Terius Hegbert Youngdell Nash, welcomed their first child together. The child was a girl, and she was named Violet Nash. Violet was Christina’s first at the time and The Dream’s fourth as he already had three other children with his ex-wife, Nivea.

News of their daughter’s birth was completely overshadowed just five months later when The Dream was photographed in an intimate pose while on vacation with a woman believed to be his assistant at the time. Several reports then popped up that The Dream had filed for divorce in February, shortly before the birth of their daughter later that month.

Christina, however, maintained that their marital relations had continued despite that and that she had tried to become who she was not just so her marriage could work. The picture of her then-husband cheating, which she said she suspected all along, was the straw that broke the camel’s back. By September 2011, they were legally and officially separated, and their divorce was finalized on October 23, 2011.

Their daughter, Violet, was just three days shy of her 8th month birthday when the divorce between Christina and The Dream was finalized. Their marriage, including the period of separation, had lasted for just over a year. With regards to co-parenting, The Dream once summarily stated that he didn’t want to be too involved in raising his daughter because it would breed expectations he was not ready to fulfill.

Those statements drew criticisms from many members of the general public who believed the rapper was not even doing the barest minimum to be in the life of a child he helped create. He has gone on to father five additional children from two different relationships since Violet was born. Christina, on the other hand, and as of the time of writing, is almost two years into her second marriage.

Matthieu “Matt Pokora” Tota is the Father of Christina Milian’s Other Children

  • Date of Birth: September 26, 1985
  • Age: 38 years old
  • Occupation: Singer and Songwriter
  • Wedding Date: December 15, 2020

Christina Milian is currently, and in contrast to her first marriage to The Dream, happily married to French R&B singer Matt Pokora (real name: Matthieu Tota, born September 26, 1985). Milian is exactly four years older than her husband, with whom she shares the same birthday of September 26. Fate designed their meeting to happen in Matt’s home country of France when the actress/singer was on vacation.

They met on a nice day in a Paris restaurant in August 2017. The restaurant manager played his part in getting the couple, who was alone at the time to talk to each other due to their shared interest in music. An idea that didn’t sit well with Christina at first, but one she is now very thankful for as Matt deployed all his French charm and charisma to woo her.

One particular source reported that on their very first meeting, Matt told Christina that they were going to have a child together, and when she remarked that she already had a daughter, he simply told her that she didn’t have a son. They quickly became an item, and true to his word, Matt made Christina a mother for the second time in January 2020. Their son, Isaiah Tota, was born on January 20, 2020, just about 11 months before Matt and Christina’s wedding in December 2020.

The said wedding, which was not elaborate yet classy and modern, took place at the Paris City Hall on December 15, 2020. They had the enviable honor of having their wedding officiated by the Mayor of Paris. Christina reportedly wore a white satin dress, while Matt, whose attire was not mentioned in any publication, must also have worn something simple and classy.

A day after their wedding, the couple let it slip that they were expecting a second child, Christina’s third, together. Keena Tota, a son, Milian’s third child and second with Matt Pokora, was born on April 23, 2021. Milian and her husband will celebrate their 2nd wedding anniversary on December 15, 2022. According to Christina, her husband has been an incredible father to her 3 children, and she sees him as a king because of it.

Hugo Wright
Hugo Wright
Hugo has extensive professional writing experience and has been writing and editing articles on multiple platforms for several years now. Away from work, he is a football addict who loves to catch up on his favourite pastimes.


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